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The True Summit: Sean Swarner on Finding a Better Way When Life Says “No”

Guest: Sean Swarner
WHY.os: Better Way – Make Sense – Contribute

Sean Swarner is the kind of person who hears “this is impossible” and immediately starts building a plan. In this episode, he talks with Dr. Gary Sanchez about surviving two cancers as a teen, living through a year of brutal treatments, and still choosing goals that would scare most healthy people. The tension is real: how do you keep going when you have every reason to quit, and when even “success” can leave you feeling empty?

Through the lens of Better Way, Sean’s story is not just about endurance. Better Way is the drive to improve what exists, ask “what if there’s a smarter path,” and keep pushing until the approach matches the outcome. Sean uses that mindset to rethink limitations, build systems for progress, and turn personal pain into something that helps other people.

You’ll learn

  • How Sean used a simple mantra to stay steady when Everest felt bigger than his body could handle.
  • What “false summits” are, and why hitting a big goal can still feel empty if your values are not in it.
  • How Better Way thinking helps you find options when everyone else says “there aren’t any.”

If you’ve been chasing goals but still feel stuck, this one will hit. Listen for practical ways to build momentum when life is heavy.

Get in touch with Sean

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Timestamp chapters (top 10)

03:17 – Why “Better Way” and what it looks like in real life
06:20 – High school: cancer, fear, and a different kind of “normal”
09:18 – Two diagnoses: Hodgkin’s lymphoma and Askin’s sarcoma
15:55 – “One lung” and what radiation changed
16:59 – A year of treatments and the hospital memories that still hit
21:19 – The mirror moment: helping himself before helping others
23:25 – Why Everest: “the highest platform in the world to scream hope”
25:15 – Nine months to Everest and the Better Way sponsorship move
27:39 – Everest strategy, chemo parallels, and “The higher I go…”
42:25 – False summits vs true summits, and what he’s building now

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The True Summit: Sean Swarner on Finding a Better Way When Life Says “No”

Sean Swarner is not a motivational quote on a poster. He is a real person who lived through the kind of pain most people can’t picture. In this episode of Beyond Your WHY, he sits down with Dr. Gary Sanchez to explain what it was like to face two cancers as a teenager, lose his sense of the future, and still choose a life that requires daily courage. The conversation lands in a surprising place: sometimes the hardest part is not surviving. It is figuring out what to do after you survive.

This episode is framed through Sean’s WHY.os: Better Way – Make Sense – Contribute. A “WHY” is the main reason someone does what they do. A WHY.os adds the HOW (their natural process) and the WHAT (what they bring to others), so you can predict how they decide, lead, and respond under pressure.

When high school is about survival

Most people remember high school for social drama and awkward moments. Sean remembers it as a fight to make it to tomorrow. He describes being on the shower floor while his hair fell out, and realizing he was not only fighting for himself, but for the future his family would have to live with if he died. That kind of pain changes what “problems” even mean. It also builds a different kind of focus, the kind that stops you from wasting your life on stuff that does not matter.

He talks about the raw details without trying to make them sound pretty. He had Hodgkin’s lymphoma, then Askin’s sarcoma, a rare diagnosis with almost no odds of survival. Treatments were extreme, and he explains that certain hospital smells can still pull him back into those memories. It is not a neat story. It is a real one, and that honesty matters because it shows what Better Way thinking is actually for: it is for the moments when you do not have the luxury of pretending.

Better Way in action: building a system for hope

After cancer, Sean hit a common problem that people do not talk about enough. When you spend years just trying to live, it is hard to imagine a future that is bigger than the next day. He describes pulling over during a drive to Florida and basically asking himself what he was doing with his life. That moment matters because it shows the Make Sense part of his WHY.os. He needed a logical framework for his life, not just momentum.

Then he chose a goal that made no sense on paper: Mount Everest. He says it plainly: “I wanted to use the top of Everest as the highest platform in the world to scream hope.” That line is Better Way in one sentence. It is not just “do something hard.” It is “use the hardest thing as a platform that helps other people.”

Sean also explains Everest in a way that sounds like project management, not hype. You shuttle gear up and down to acclimate. You build capacity, recover, then build again. He compares it to chemo, where your body takes a hit, then has to rebuild. And when he needed something simple to keep his mind steady, he repeated one line with every step: “The higher I go, the stronger I get.”

False summits and the true summit

Here’s where the conversation gets even more interesting. Sean admits that even after major wins, he felt hollow. He calls these moments “false summits,” the kind of goal that looks like it should satisfy you, but doesn’t. In real life, false summits sound like: “Once I get this title, then I’ll feel successful,” or “Once I buy that thing, then I’ll feel okay.” He’s not anti-goals. He’s anti-goals without values.

Sean defines a true summit as having “goals, values, and heart all pulling in the same direction.” That’s the Better Way lens again: not just bigger goals, but better alignment. It is also his Contribute showing up, because he keeps bringing it back to impact beyond himself. He wants people to stop chasing the thing that impresses others and start building a life that actually feels right when nobody is watching.

By the end of the episode, Sean is not trying to convince anyone to climb a mountain. He’s trying to help people stop letting fear, old stories, and other people’s limits pick their future. If you’ve been working hard but still feel like something’s off, this conversation gives you a cleaner way to think about progress: build capacity, align your values, and make your wins mean something. Listen to the full episode and pay attention to the places where you’ve been chasing a “false summit” without realizing it.

Meet Sean!

Sean Swarner’s journey is nothing short of extraordinary, and it’s not just about the mountains he’s climbed or the races he’s finished. He’s the only person in history to summit Everest, complete the Explorer’s Grand Slam, finish the Hawaii Ironman World Championship, and run 7 marathons on 7 continents in 7 days, all after surviving two terminal cancers, being given just 14 days to live, and living through a year-long coma with only one lung.

He’s been named one of the top 10 most inspirational people in history, alongside Winston Churchill, Bruce Lee, and Muhammad Ali, and has shared stages with Presidents, Nobel Peace Prize winners like Archbishop Desmond Tutu, UN leaders, and entrepreneurs such as Sir Richard Branson.

What makes Sean’s story truly powerful isn’t the feats themselves. It’s the lessons he can share about turning impossible odds into action, overcoming obstacles, and building breakthroughs in life.

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Turn Down the Trauma Loop: How the Mind Replays Pain and How to Change It

Guest: Dr. Don Wood
WHY.os: Contribute – Challenge – Better Way

Dr. Don Wood is a neuroscientist, author, speaker, and Founder & CEO of Inspired Performance Institute. His work focuses on how trauma and disturbing events can keep running in the background and shape how someone thinks, feels, and performs.

In this episode, Dr. WHY talks with Don through the lens of Don’s WHY, Contribute. Don’s drive is to help people feel less stuck in their own mind so they can show up for life again. His HOW, Challenge, pushes against the idea that you have to live with intense emotional loops forever. His WHAT, Better Way, is his practical method for helping people reduce the intensity of the memories that keep pulling them back.

You’ll learn:

  • Why the mind can treat an old painful memory like it is happening right now.
  • A simple way Don describes reducing the “intensity” of a memory without pretending it never happened.
  • How Don’s Contribute WHY shows up as a clear goal: help people stop fighting the past so they can live forward.

Listen to this episode if you want a clearer understanding of why grief and trauma can hit so hard, and what it can look like to lower the emotional volume.

Get in touch with Don:

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00:01 – Why Don’s work matters right now
00:42 – The mind replays a painful moment like it is “now”
01:12 – “An emotion is a call for an action”
01:35 – High definition vs low definition memories
01:57 – How do you actually turn it down?
02:02 – The two-minute recall and process work
02:23 – When the mind stops reacting like it is happening now
02:35 – Moving from “last moments” to the full relationship
03:12 – “There’s nothing wrong with you. It’s just a glitch.”
03:33 – Sadness can stay; the urgent panic can stop

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Turn Down the Trauma Loop: How the Mind Replays Pain and How to Change It

Some episodes land different because they start with something real, not theory. Dr. Gary Sanchez opens this one by talking with his wife, Julie, about losing her mother and what it feels like after being there at the end. It is that specific kind of grief where your brain keeps replaying the hardest moment, even when you want it to stop.

That is where Dr. Don Wood steps in. Don is a neuroscientist, author, speaker, and the Founder & CEO of Inspired Performance Institute. His work focuses on how trauma and disturbing events can keep running in the background and shape how someone thinks, feels, and performs.

To make the conversation easier to follow, it helps to know one quick idea from WHY Institute. A person’s WHY is the deeper driver behind what they do. A WHY.os adds HOW they naturally do it and WHAT they tend to bring to others, which is why two people can care about the same goal but go after it in totally different ways.

Don’s WHY.os is Contribute – Challenge – Better Way. Through Contribute, his focus is service: he wants people to suffer less so they can show up for life again. Through Challenge, he pushes back on the idea that intense emotional loops are permanent. Through Better Way, he brings a method and a process, not just motivation.

When the mind treats “then” like “now”

Don explains something that makes a lot of people feel seen immediately. He says the subconscious operates in the present, so when someone replays a memory, part of the mind reacts as if the event is happening again. In Julie’s case, Don points to how the brain can keep returning to the moment of her mother’s death because it was stored with a lot of detail.

He puts it in plain language: “Your subconscious operates in the present. It thinks everything is now.” That is a pretty big reframe for anyone who has ever thought, “Why can’t I just move on?” The problem is not weakness. The problem is the brain doing what it thinks it is supposed to do.

Why emotions feel so intense

Don shares a second idea that explains the intensity. “Anytime you have an emotion, an emotion is a call for an action.” If the mind believes the painful moment is still happening, then the emotion can feel like an urgent demand to fix it, stop it, reverse it.

He even describes the mind’s internal message when the memory comes up: it is like the brain is trying to prevent what already happened. That is where people can spiral, and why grief can start to look like depression or shutdown over time, especially when the mind keeps fighting an outcome it cannot change.

A Better Way: lower the “definition,” lower the pull

Dr. Gary asks the practical question: how do you take a memory from “high definition” to “low definition”? Don’s answer is process-focused. He talks about recalling a short memory and using a series of steps to reduce the intensity, so the mind stops reacting like it is happening right now.

He also makes a point that matters to anyone worried this means “erasing” or “denying” the person they lost. That is not the goal. The goal is that sadness can remain, but the urgent panic can stop. After the intensity drops, people can think about the full relationship again, not just the hardest moment.

And he adds something that fits his Contribute WHY perfectly: “There’s nothing wrong with you… it’s just a glitch.” That is the tone of someone who is trying to help, not judge. If someone is dealing with trauma, anxiety, depression, or addiction, it is still wise to seek professional support. This episode is education and perspective, not a replacement for medical or mental health care.

In the end, Don’s work comes through as a clear act of contribution: helping people stop wrestling with the past so they can show up for their life today. If you have ever felt like your brain is stuck on repeat, this conversation gives language for what is happening, and a grounded direction for what to do next.

Meet Dr. Don Wood!

Dr. Don Wood, PhD, author, speaker, Founder & CEO of the Inspired Performance Institute, and creator of the patented TIPP method focused on helping people resolve their trauma and get their lives to a place of high performance.

He has helped 1000’s of people live a better life and overcome the effects of stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and addiction with his neuroscience-backed program, TIPP.

TIPP program is designed to clear away the effects of disturbing or traumatic events, repurpose old thinking patterns and set the individual’s mind up for peak performance.

Dr. Wood is also author of two books, Emotional Concussions and You Must Be Out of your Mind and is releasing his newest book Don’t Mess With My DNA in near future.

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Discipline Equals Freedom: The Proven System Behind Lifelong Success

Guest: Barry Garapedian
WHY.os: Right Way – Better Way – Contribute

Barry Garapedian spent nearly 40 years at Morgan Stanley before launching MAG7 Consulting, where he now mentors teens and young adults on habits that build confidence, discipline, and success. He’s proof that hard work and structure still win in a world chasing shortcuts. In this episode, Barry and Dr. Gary Sanchez talk about what it really takes to do things the right way—and why so few people actually do.

You’ll learn:

  • The truth about discipline: how structure, routines, and small daily wins create real freedom.
  • Why grit beats talent every time: and the mindset that keeps you consistent when others quit.
  • How to build systems that work: the same process Barry used to rise to the top on Wall Street and now teaches to young high performers.

Listen to this episode to see how doing things the right way—every day—can lead to success that actually lasts.

Get in touch with Barry!

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MAG7 Consulting

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00:00 – Introduction & The WHY of Right Way
01:00 – Meet Barry Garapedian: From Wall Street to Mentorship
03:00 – Early Discipline: Magic, Music, and Martial Arts
05:30 – Lessons from Entrepreneurial Parents
08:00 – Work Ethic, Grit, and Outworking Talent
12:00 – Cold Calling Mastery & Building Systems for Success
17:30 – Gamifying Goals and Tracking High-Leverage Activities
22:00 – Professionalism, Presentation, and Personal Standards
30:00 – Creating MAG7 Consulting & The Power of the WHY.os
38:30 – Teaching High Performance & Impacting the Next Generation

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Discipline Equals Freedom: How Barry Garapedian Built a Life of Success by Doing Things the Right Way

If you’ve ever wondered what separates the people who actually do the work from those who just talk about it, this week’s episode of the Beyond Your WHY podcast is a masterclass. Dr. Gary Sanchez sat down with Barry Garapedian—a former Managing Director at Morgan Stanley turned mentor to the next generation—to talk about how structure, discipline, and doing things “the right way” built his decades-long success.

Barry isn’t just another motivational voice preaching hard work. He’s someone who lived it. From building a career at the top of Wall Street to now running MAG7 Consulting, where he teaches teens and young adults the habits that lead to real confidence and achievement, Barry’s message is simple but powerful: Discipline creates freedom. And in a world obsessed with shortcuts, his story is a reminder that consistency is still the ultimate advantage.

The Structure Behind Success

Barry grew up in a home that valued structure, discipline, and curiosity. His parents—both educators—taught him early on that learning skills and mastering the basics mattered. He practiced piano for seven years, took magic lessons, earned multiple black belts, and even turned those lessons in precision and practice into lifelong habits. “Discipline equals freedom,” he told Dr. Gary. “The structure I built for myself wasn’t confining—it gave me control over my life.”

That philosophy carried him through a 39-year career at Morgan Stanley, where he climbed to the top by doing what few others were willing to do: outworking everyone. While others focused on short-term wins, Barry obsessed over systems. He tracked his calls, measured his results, and treated progress like a science. It wasn’t glamorous, but it worked.

Grit Over Genius

When Barry talks about success, he doesn’t credit luck or intelligence—he credits grit. He shared that many of the smartest people he knew didn’t make it as far because they weren’t willing to do the hard, repetitive work that mastery requires. “I wasn’t the sharpest in the room,” he said, “but I could outwork anyone. Grit will always beat genius.”

That mindset shaped the way he approached everything—from cold calling hundreds of prospects a week in the early ‘80s to writing personal notes by hand. Yes, actual handwritten notes, sealed with wax and customized stamps. It sounds old-school, but it’s one of Barry’s secret weapons. “Handwritten notes are rare today,” he said. “They take time, they stand out, and they show respect.” It’s that attention to detail that set him apart in an industry where everyone was chasing shortcuts.

From Wall Street to the Next Generation

When Barry retired from finance, he could’ve stopped working altogether. Instead, he launched MAG7 Consulting, a coaching company built to teach high-performance habits to young people. His “Magnificent Seven” framework focuses on the skills schools don’t teach: discipline, confidence, communication, and goal setting. Through weekly sessions, Barry helps students turn self-doubt into structure and fear into focus. “Nothing happens until after you commit,” he said—and he’s right.

What makes Barry’s approach different is how personal it is. He doesn’t just coach from theory; he brings decades of experience, relentless structure, and genuine care to every student. He even integrates Dr. Gary’s WHY.os Discovery to help his students understand their purpose, process, and contribution—so they can not only succeed but know why they’re succeeding.

Barry Garapedian’s story is proof that greatness doesn’t come from genius or luck—it comes from daily decisions done the right way. His mix of old-school discipline and modern awareness reminds us that success is still built one habit, one note, and one act of consistency at a time.

If you’re ready to learn how to build systems that work, strengthen your mindset, and live life the right way, tune into this episode of Beyond Your WHY with Dr. Gary Sanchez and Barry Garapedian.

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How to Find the Compass Within: Build a Life Aligned with Your Core Values

Guest: Robert Glazer
WHY.os: Better Way – Make Sense – Contribute

Robert Glazer is a bestselling author, leadership expert, and founder of a $35 million global company recognized by Inc. and Fortune as one of the best places to work. Known for his books Elevate and Friday Forward, Robert joins Dr. Gary Sanchez to talk about his newest book, The Compass Within—and how knowing your core values can guide better decisions in work and life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to identify your “core values” and use them to make choices that actually fit who you are.
  • Why high achievers lose direction when they ignore their values—and how to get back on track.
  • How to lead effectively when your WHY is “Better Way,” without overwhelming yourself or your team.

Listen to this episode of Beyond Your WHY with Dr. Gary Sanchez to learn how to stop chasing what’s next and start building a life that actually feels right.

Get in touch with Robert!

Facebook
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robertglazer.com

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00:00 Introduction to the Better Way Why
02:14 The Dual Nature of Better Way
04:11 Balancing Innovation and Team Dynamics
08:46 Understanding Core Values
10:02 The Compass Within: A New Approach to Values
13:24 The Story of Jamie: Core Values in Action
18:10 The Impact of Core Values on Decision Making
19:50 Navigating Challenges with Core Values
24:00 The Importance of Awareness in Leadership
27:46 Getting Back on Track with Core Values
31:42 Writing the Compass Within
36:35 Conclusion and Call to Action

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The Compass Within: How Robert Glazer Finds a Better Way to Lead, Live, and Stay True to What Matters

When “Better” Becomes Too Much

Robert Glazer knows a thing or two about success. He’s the founder of a $35 million global company, a Wall Street Journal and USA Today bestselling author, and a recognized voice in leadership and performance. His work has been featured in Forbes, Inc., and Entrepreneur — and he’s even appeared on The Dr. Oz Show. But what makes Robert stand out isn’t just his business track record — it’s how he connects success to self-awareness and values. In his conversation with Dr. Gary Sanchez on the Beyond Your WHY podcast, Robert opens up about his WHY — “Better Way” — and how it’s shaped everything from his leadership style to his latest book, The Compass Within.

The “Better Way” personality is all about improvement — never satisfied, always tinkering, constantly asking, “What if we did this differently?” But Robert’s learned that constantly chasing “better” can also be a trap. “If I try to make everything better,” he says, “I won’t actually make things better.” It’s the paradox that so many high achievers face — progress at the cost of peace. And in this episode, Robert breaks down how he’s learned to balance the two through one simple but powerful idea: knowing and living by your core values.

Core Values Aren’t Fluff — They’re Your Filter

At the heart of Robert’s message is this: your core values aren’t lofty ideals or motivational poster quotes. They’re your non-negotiables — the principles that quietly guide every decision you make. “A great core value helps you make better decisions,” he explains. “It’s the instruction manual you didn’t get.”

Robert’s process for finding those values isn’t about picking words like integrity or family off a list. It’s about reflection — looking at what’s mattered most in your life, when you’ve felt proud, and when you’ve felt completely out of alignment. He says your values usually form early, often in childhood, and stick with you even if you don’t realize it. And when you go against them? You feel it. “You might get out of the tunnel,” Robert says, “but your car will be pretty beat up.”

His new book, The Compass Within, takes that idea and turns it into a story — literally. Instead of writing another how-to guide, he wrote a parable about a man named Jamie, a rising professional who’s stuck in all the wrong places — his job, his relationship, his environment. Through a mentor, Jamie learns to identify what truly matters to him and starts making changes that bring him back to himself. It’s storytelling with a purpose — simple, relatable, and painfully real for anyone who’s ever hit success but still felt off.

The Three Decisions That Shape Everything

Robert says every major turning point in life comes down to what he calls “the Big Three”: your partner, your vocation, and your community. These are the areas where values alignment (or misalignment) shows up the loudest. If any one of them is out of sync, the dissonance creeps in — in your mood, your motivation, even your physical health. He jokes that you can’t live in a place like Newcastle, where people go to the bar at 4 p.m. every day, if your top value is health. You’ll either give in or feel like an outsider.

That’s the power of knowing your internal compass — it keeps you from drifting toward a life that doesn’t fit. “You don’t always get credit when your values line up with the current,” Robert says. “The real test is when your boat is going upstream.” Whether it’s choosing the right team to work with or the kind of person you marry, those “Big Three” choices shape every part of who you become.

Leading from Values, Not from Vibes

As a CEO, Robert learned that leadership without self-awareness creates chaos. His advice? Don’t copy other leaders. Lead from your own values. “You either lead from your values with awareness or without it — and there’s a massive difference,” he says.

He also encourages leaders to teach their teams how to “manage them.” If your value is trust, tell your team exactly what earns it and what breaks it. If you’re a “Better Way” type who constantly has new ideas, give people permission to push back. That clarity doesn’t just make you easier to work with — it makes you more authentic. And when people understand what drives you, they can actually follow you.

The Real Takeaway

Robert Glazer’s message is simple but profound: success without alignment eventually cracks. When you know your values, every decision — personal or professional — gets easier. You stop chasing what looks good and start choosing what feels right.

As Robert puts it, “It’s hard to make good decisions without self-awareness… and it’s hard to make bad ones with it.”

If you’ve ever felt stuck, burnt out, or unsure whether your “better way” is still serving you, this episode is worth a listen.

👉 Listen to the full conversation with Dr. Gary Sanchez and Robert Glazer on the Beyond Your WHY Podcast — and find your own compass within.

Get to Know Robert!

Robert Glazer is the founder and chairman of the board of Acceleration Partners, a global leader in partnership marketing. He also cofounded and chaired BrandCycle, which was acquired by Stack Commerce/TPG in 2021. A serial entrepreneur and award-winning executive, Robert is passionate about helping individuals and organizations elevate their performance.
Under his leadership, Acceleration Partners garnered numerous accolades, including Glassdoor’s Employees’ Choice Awards, Entrepreneur’s Top Company Culture, Inc.’s Best Place to Work, and Fortune’s Best Small & Medium Workplaces. Robert himself was twice named to Glassdoor’s list of Top CEOs for Small and Medium Companies in the U.S., ranking #2.

Robert shares his insights through Friday Forward, a weekly inspirational newsletter reaching over two hundred thousand readers in more than one hundred countries. He is also the #1 Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and international bestselling author of seven books, including Elevate, Friday Forward, Elevate Your Team, and How to Thrive In The Virtual Workplace. Additionally, Robert hosts the Elevate Podcast, a top 1 percent show on business, performance, and leadership with over three million downloads globally.

His work has been featured in outlets such as Harvard Business Review, The Today Show, Business Insider, Fast Company, Inc., Forbes, and Entrepreneur. Robert speaks to audiences around the world on topics of leadership, culture, and personal and professional development and has also spoken on the TEDx stage.
Outside work, Robert enjoys skiing, cycling, reading, traveling, spending quality time with his family, and overseeing home renovation projects.

To learn more about his writing, speaking, or partnerships opportunities, please visit robertglazer.com.

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5 Simple Shifts to Take Control of Your Health (Without More Doctors or Drugs)

Guest: Sachin Patel
WHY.os: Better Way – Simplify – Challenge

Sachin Patel is a functional medicine leader, breathwork teacher, and founder of The Living Proof Institute. He’s known for creating a new model of healthcare that keeps costs low while putting responsibility back into the hands of patients. His mission is simple: the doctor of the future is the patient.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why health creation beats disease prevention and the simple shifts you can make today.
  • How breath controls your nervous system and the easiest way to reset it.
  • What most people get wrong about healthcare and how to take charge of your own well-being.

Listen now to learn how Sachin built a better way to practice medicine and how you can start applying these lessons to your own health.

Get in touch with Sachin!
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www.becomeproof.com

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00:05 – The WHY of Better Way
02:11 – Sachin’s Early Life & Upbringing
05:36 – Lessons in Self-Reliance & Perfectionism
10:33 – Choosing Kinesiology Over Computer Science
14:04 – Chiropractic Beginnings & Active Release Technique
17:42 – Turning Point: Functional Medicine Discovery
22:20 – Building a Low-Overhead, Virtual Practice
32:01 – Philosophy: The Doctor of the Future is the Patient
38:45 – Health Creation vs. Disease Prevention
44:02 – Breathwork as the First Domino

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The Doctor of the Future Is You: Lessons from Sachin Patel

When was the last time you thought about your health as something you create instead of something you just try not to lose? That shift alone could change everything—and it’s at the core of what Sachin Patel teaches. Sachin is a functional medicine leader, breathwork teacher, and founder of The Living Proof Institute. He’s helped thousands of people see health in a whole new way: simple, doable, and in their hands.

On the Beyond Your WHY Podcast with Dr. Gary Sanchez, Sachin shares his story of moving from chiropractic to functional medicine, and how he built a better way to practice. More importantly, he lays out what anyone can do to stop waiting on doctors and start taking ownership of their health. Let’s break down some of his biggest lessons from the conversation.

Health Creation vs. Disease Prevention

Sachin doesn’t mince words: prevention is the wrong goal. He explains that most of us live life trying to avoid disease instead of creating health. “Prevention is like putting all the addresses in your GPS that you don’t want to go to,” he says. “Health creation is putting in the one address you do want—and getting there with certainty.”

This means shifting focus from endless diets and checklists to the basics our bodies are always asking for: real food, movement, rest, connection, and time in nature. According to Sachin, 90% of our cells regenerate within six months. The body is constantly giving us a fresh start—it’s our choices that decide whether those cells get stronger or weaker.

Breath Is the Steering Wheel of Your Nervous System

Out of everything Sachin teaches, breath might be the simplest—and most powerful—starting point. “Your breath is the steering wheel of your nervous system,” he explains. If your body is stuck in fight-or-flight mode (which most people are), your organs can’t do their jobs. Healing slows down, digestion stalls, and stress takes over.

His advice is easy to put into practice right now: close your mouth, breathe through your nose, and count four to six seconds in and out. Repeat that and you’ll feel your system shift. He also points out that everyday things like sighing, laughing, and humming are built-in resets. With 23,000 breaths a day, small changes add up fast.

A Better Way to Work and Live

Sachin’s “better way” mindset didn’t just shape his health philosophy—it reshaped how he practiced medicine. After years in traditional clinics, he realized high overhead and old-school systems made it hard for doctors to truly help patients. So he designed a new model: a low-cost, mostly virtual setup that gave him the freedom to focus on patients instead of paperwork.

The ripple effect is huge. Patients get more value at a fraction of the cost, and practitioners learn they don’t need a massive office or layers of staff to make a living. As Sachin puts it, “Making money shouldn’t cost you the things money can’t buy.” His model shows there’s a way to do meaningful work without burning out—or leaving patients behind.

Sachin Patel is more than a health coach—he’s showing people how to take back control of their lives. From rethinking prevention, to resetting stress with breath, to reimagining how healthcare itself is delivered, his message is clear: the future of health starts with us.

If you’re ready to think differently about your body and your well-being, listen to this episode of the Beyond Your WHY Podcast. You’ll walk away with practical steps and a fresh perspective on what it really means to be healthy.

Get to Know Sachin!

Sachin Patel is a father, husband, philanthropist, functional medicine practice success coach, speaker, author, breathwork facilitator, and plant medicine advocate.

Sachin is convinced that “the doctor of the future is the patient” and he has committed himself to helping others raise their consciousness, activate their inner doctor, and initiate their deepest healing through the use of lifestyle, and breathwork.

Sachin founded The Living Proof Institute through which he pioneered a revolutionary approach to patient-centered healthcare. Sachin coaches hundreds of practitioners around the world so that they are empowered to deliver affordable and inspired care to their communities through his Perfect Practice Mentorship Program.

He is an advocate of transforming the healthcare paradigm and he has devoted his life to the betterment of health care for both patients and practitioners.

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From Training Tom Brady to Tackling Parkinson’s: Tom House’s New Mission

Tom House is a former Major League pitcher who turned his time in the bullpen into a sports-science lab. Today he’s known as the “throwing whisperer,” coaching icons like Nolan Ryan and Tom Brady while fighting Parkinson’s with the same data-driven grit. His mix of PhD research and locker-room wisdom makes him a rare voice who pairs hard facts with straight talk.

Tune in to learn:

  • How a “process over outcome” mindset put him under Hank Aaron’s record-breaking homer—and why it still matters for any goal.
  • The four pillars he uses to shape both Hall of Fame arms and everyday health: mechanics, strength, mindset, and recovery.
  • Simple daily moves that let him trade a wheelchair for surfboards while living with Parkinson’s.

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00:10 – Intro & Tom’s “Make Sense” WHY
03:30 – Process-Focused Upbringing
08:07 – USC Years & Rod Dedeaux Lesson
12:40 – Catching Hank Aaron’s 715th HR
18:57 – Birth of 3D Pitching Analytics
23:13 – Coaching Legends from Ryan to Brady
31:51 – Parkinson’s Diagnosis Revealed
40:21 – Adaptive Training Lab for Patients
45:55 – “Don’t Do Nothing” Daily Routine
49:03 – Best Advice: Respect the Competition Like this comment

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4 Pillars, 3-D Data, Everyday Wins: Tom House on the Beyond Your WHY Podcast

Tom House pitched in the majors, caught Hank Aaron’s 715th homer, then turned every bullpen into a research station. Today he carries the nickname “throwing whisperer” after coaching Nolan Ryan, Drew Brees, and Tom Brady—all while managing Parkinson’s with the same grit he asks of elite athletes. His chat with Dr. Gary Sanchez shows how clear systems, relentless testing, and small daily actions can lift results on the field, in business, and at home.

Listeners get more than sports trivia here; they see how precise data and old-school integrity fit together. Aidan, writing in her favorite coffee-chat style, spotlights the parts that make you pause, nod, and jot notes for Monday morning. From motion-capture breakthroughs to a morning rule that fights inertia, the talk balances science and plain speak. Keep reading for the highlights, then queue up the episode to catch every detail straight from Tom’s voice.

The Four Pillars That Hold Up Peak Performance

House boils success down to mechanics, functional strength, mental-emotional skills, and recovery. Each pillar stacks on the next, and none stands alone. “My job was simple: take the guesswork out of coaching,” he says, pointing to decades of testing that back his method. Athletes learn where power leaks and how to patch them fast; executives can copy the same checklist for mind-body stamina. The take-home: skip shortcuts, shore up the foundation, then watch output climb.

Data Before Opinions: How 3-D Cameras Changed the Game

In 1986 House started filming pitchers at 1,000 frames per second and logging every angle. High-speed video proved that eyes trick coaches, but numbers do not. The result? Mechanics once taught by feel became teachable with proof. Business leaders can steal the mindset—measure first, tinker second—to trim waste and sharpen strategy. “We didn’t get beat; we got out-milligrammed,” he jokes, reminding listeners that tiny adjustments decide winners.

Parkinson’s on the Clock: 4 Hours Hard for 4 Hours Clear

When doctors delivered the diagnosis, House built a new training block. Four hours of focused movement buy him roughly four hours of steady hands and clear speech. He mixes light weights, balance drills, and surf sessions—yes, surf sessions—to keep symptoms at bay. The rule of thumb he gives patients: “Don’t do nothing.” One small task—sit up, brush teeth—starts the momentum snowball. It’s the same mindset that put him in the right bullpen spot for Aaron’s record ball years earlier.

Tom House proves that process breeds luck, numbers beat hunches, and tiny wins stack fast. If you coach, lead a team, or face your own uphill climb, this episode slips practical tactics into a good story. Hit play on the Beyond Your WHY Podcast, hear Tom’s full playbook, and share the insights with a teammate who could use a fresh edge.

Learn More About Tom House!

If you’ve ever heard of a quarterback changing his throwing motion mid-season… or a pitcher turning to neuroscience for an edge… there’s a good chance Tom House was behind it.

Tom’s story starts in the bullpen—literally. A Major League Baseball pitcher for nearly a decade, he earned his stripes with the Atlanta Braves and Boston Red Sox. But his real calling was never just throwing a ball—it was understanding human potential.

After hanging up his glove, Tom became the “throwing whisperer” — coaching legends like Nolan Ryan, Drew Brees, and Tom Brady. But his genius wasn’t just in mechanics—it was in blending science, motion, and mindset to help elite athletes unlock what made them great.

Then, 15 years ago, life threw Tom a curveball: a diagnosis of Parkinson’s Disease.

For most, it would have been a reason to step back. But for Tom, it became the next chapter of his WHY.

Today, Tom channels everything he’s learned—decades of sports performance, biomechanics, coaching, and mindset mastery—into his work with the National Parkinson’s Association, building movement-based protocols that are changing the lives of those living with the disease. His journey isn’t just about sports anymore—it’s about legacy, resilience, and healing through motion.

In this conversation with Dr. Gary Sanchez, Tom unpacks the why behind his relentless curiosity, how Parkinson’s gave new purpose to his passion, and why he’s more fired up today—helping others thrive through movement—than he ever was on the mound.

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What It Really Takes to Save Lives and Build a Legacy

Matt Nealand is a paramedic, entrepreneur, and teacher who has helped thousands through his work in emergency services and by building a paramedic training program from the ground up. His story shows what’s possible when you focus on service, not status. Matt shares hard-won lessons from the front lines—of emergency calls, business ownership, and life itself. If you’ve ever wanted to build something bigger than yourself, this episode will make you stop and think.

Tune in to learn:

  • Why separating emotion from outcome can save you from burnout.
  • How to multiply your impact by building systems, not just doing more.
  • The real secret to staying in the game—especially when it feels like you’re losing.

Don’t miss this one—hit play now and get ready for a fresh perspective on service, leadership, and life.

Get in touch with Matt!

Email: mnealand@emtsacademy.com
Website: EmtsacademyHome – EMTS Academy
LinkedIn: Linkedinlinkedin.com/in/matt-nealand-7a08a410
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00:02 – The WHY of Contribute: Meet Matt Nealan
02:31 – Early Drive to Serve: The Firehouse Kid
06:07 – Thriving in Chaos: The Paramedic Mindset
10:41 – E + R = O: A Formula for Emotional Survival
14:53 – The Hidden Reality of EMS Work
17:13 – From Firefighter to Entrepreneur: The Reindeer Hot Dog Hustle
19:59 – The Ripple Effect: Matt’s “Service Ratio” Philosophy
23:08 – The Rollercoaster of Entrepreneurship
26:21 – Shifting Focus: From EMS to Empowering Entrepreneurs
32:07 – Best Advice: Keep Going, Even When It’s Hard

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From Chaos to Clarity: How Matt Nealand Found His “Why” (and Why It Matters for You Too)

What do you do when your job is to keep people alive—and they keep dying anyway? Matt Nealand knows that feeling all too well. He’s a paramedic, educator, and entrepreneur who’s seen more than his fair share of chaos. From pulling double shifts on the busiest trucks in Austin, to running rescue operations in the wilds of Alaska, to building one of the few private paramedic schools in the U.S., Matt has been on a mission his whole life: to help people. And if you’re wondering why you should care about a guy who used to sell reindeer hot dogs on the side (yes, seriously), it’s because his story holds a truth that hits home for all of us—especially when we’re chasing success, but feeling burned out along the way.

This episode of Beyond Your WHY isn’t just about one man’s career; it’s a real talk about purpose, impact, and how to keep going when everything feels like too much. Dr. Gary Sanchez sits down with Matt to unpack what it means to contribute—without burning out—and how to build something bigger than yourself. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a parent, or just someone who wants to make a difference, Matt’s hard-won lessons will hit home. And yeah, there’s a story about a bathroom conversation that proves even paramedics get weird questions from strangers (because apparently, some people think ambulances run on nuclear energy—more on that later).

Chaos Happens—Your Response Is What Counts

Matt’s seen a lot. He’s been in the trenches of emergency services, where the stakes are literally life and death. But what helped him stay grounded wasn’t just experience; it was a mindset shift. He shared the formula that changed everything for him: Event + Response = Outcome. The point? You can’t control what happens to you, but you can control how you respond. “Sometimes you just need a second to breathe, separate the event from the response, and you’ll get a different outcome,” he says. That’s not just advice for paramedics—it’s for anyone who’s been knocked down by life.

Want to Make a Big Impact? Think Multiplication, Not Addition

Here’s where Matt’s story really gets interesting. As a paramedic, he could help one person at a time. But when he built a paramedic school, training thousands of EMS professionals, his impact multiplied. He calls this the service ratio—the idea that by teaching others, he can indirectly help tens of thousands of patients. “One paramedic can serve one patient at a time. But if I train 4,000 paramedics, and each of them helps 10,000 people… that’s a ripple effect I could never achieve on my own.” That’s the takeaway: if you want to make a difference, don’t just do the work—build systems that let you scale it.

The Entrepreneur’s Rollercoaster—And Why You Shouldn’t Get Off

Matt doesn’t sugarcoat it. Starting and growing a business is hard. He compares it to a rollercoaster: thrilling one minute, terrifying the next. “There were times I literally typed out my resignation letter, but I couldn’t quit,” he admits. The key to making it through? Keep going, even when it feels messy, awkward, or downright impossible. Matt’s advice is simple: “It’s going to feel uncomfortable. You’re going to want to quit. Keep going and figure it out.” Whether you’re running a company, raising a family, or just trying to get through a tough season, that’s advice we all need to hear.

Matt Nealand’s story isn’t just inspiring—it’s practical. He reminds us that we’re not here to play small. Whether you’re a paramedic, an entrepreneur, or someone chasing a dream, your job is to take your time, talent, and treasure and use them to serve as many people as possible. That’s how you create impact. That’s how you build a life that truly matters.

Want more of Matt’s wisdom (and yes, the reindeer hot dog story too)? Listen to the full episode of Beyond Your WHY with Dr. Gary Sanchez. It’s packed with lessons you’ll want to replay when life gets tough.

Matt Nealand, BS, EMT-LP — a visionary leader in emergency medical education and the Program Director for EMTS Academy and the Paramedic Program at St. David’s Round Rock Medical Center in Austin, Texas.

Matt took a program he built from the ground up and expanded it to eight locations across Texas. Along the way, he discovered that the key to lasting impact isn’t just professional success — it’s staying grounded in purpose and perspective. Now, he’s helping others ask the bigger questions: What’s next? What’s possible? And how do we build a life that truly matters?

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Burn the Rulebook: How One Entrepreneur Flipped an Industry on Its Head

Guest: Greg Hague
WHY.os: Contribute – Better Way – Simplify

Greg Hague is the founder of 72Sold and a longtime disruptor in the real estate world. He’s also a lawyer, bestselling author, and former #1 scorer on the Arizona bar exam—35 years after law school. But what makes Greg important isn’t just his long list of accomplishments—it’s the way he thinks. In this episode, he shares how hitting rock bottom reshaped his life and how he used that moment to build something better for himself and his industry. Tune in to discover:

  • How Greg bounced back after losing everything—and the rule he lives by because of it
  • A simple mental framework he uses to rethink problems and come up with better ideas
  • The real reason most real estate companies fail their agents (and what he did instead)

This episode is full of straight talk, smart thinking, and hard-earned wisdom. Don’t miss it—hit play now. 👇

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00:00 – The Bear Attack That Changed Everything
06:00 – Growing Up in Cincinnati & Early Lessons from Dad
08:40 – Losing It All: From Success to Yard Sales
12:00 – Reinventing Himself in Arizona
17:00 – Seven-Dimensional Thinking & Simplifying Complexity
33:30 – Purpose Over Pleasure: The Definition of Happiness
40:00 – The Birth of 72Sold: Selling Programs, Not People
46:30 – Disrupting the Industry (and Facing the Backlash)
52:00 – Why It’s Called 72Sold
59:00 – Mastering the Psychology of Selling Homes

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From Rock Bottom to Industry Rebel: 3 Lessons Real Estate (and Life) Shouldn’t Ignore from Greg Hague

There’s failure—and then there’s selling your kid’s jacket for six bucks at a yard sale.

Greg Hague has seen both. Before becoming the founder of 72Sold and flipping the traditional real estate model on its head, Greg built and lost a real estate empire in Cincinnati, watched interest rates skyrocket into the teens, and found himself restarting his life in Arizona. Oh, and did we mention he survived a bear attack, scored #1 on the Arizona bar exam three decades after law school, and flew college dates around in a private plane? Yeah. That too.

But none of that is what makes Greg important. What matters is how he thinks—and how that thinking can completely change the way you approach business, setbacks, and purpose. In his episode of Beyond Your WHY with Dr. Gary Sanchez, Greg shares the lessons that fueled his comeback and reshaped how homes are sold across the country.

Happiness Isn’t a New House—It’s a Worthwhile Reason to Wake Up

One of the most powerful moments in the episode is Greg’s realization that, even with the house, the cars, the motorcycles, and the private plane, he still wasn’t happy. It took a blunt conversation with a friend to call out the truth: he’d lost his sense of purpose. “You’re confusing pleasure with purpose,” the friend told him. “Pleasure is the icing. Purpose is the cake.”

That moment flipped a switch. Greg stopped chasing stuff and started chasing significance. He went back to what really mattered to him—creating something that actually helped people, especially in the real estate world he knew so well. The lesson? All the external wins in the world can’t fill the space left by a lack of meaning. And if your “why” isn’t clear, you’ll just keep buying things hoping one of them will be.

Simple Beats Flashy: Why Frameworks Win Over Talent

Greg admits he wasn’t the most gifted football player, law student, or businessman in the room—but what set him apart was how he thought. In the episode, he shares a mental tool he uses for nearly every decision: Seven-Dimensional Thinking. The idea is to look at any problem or process through the lenses of Bigger, Smaller, Faster, Slower, Opposite, Different, or Gone. It’s simple, repeatable, and oddly effective.

Whether you’re creating a sales strategy or trying to reinvent yourself after a major failure, Greg’s advice is clear: don’t just react—rethink. “Take the mushy idea and turn it into something you can bullet point,” he says. That’s exactly how 72Sold started—not as a company, but as a way to win listings when nobody would hire him. He stopped selling himself and started selling a method. The takeaway? When people don’t buy you, give them a system they can.

The Real Estate Industry is Broken—And Greg’s Not Sorry for Saying So

Greg doesn’t tiptoe around the issue: most real estate firms spend more time recruiting agents than helping the ones they have succeed. He calls it like it is. “Why would you build a business model around how many agents you can collect, instead of how many you can help thrive?” It’s a wake-up call for anyone in an industry that’s gotten too comfortable doing things the way they’ve always been done.

With 72Sold, Greg flipped the model. He created a home-selling system rooted in psychology—specifically, exclusivity, scarcity, and urgency. That’s why the program sells faster and at a higher price point. But more importantly, it’s why sellers walk away feeling like they were actually taken care of. His point is simple: doing better for people isn’t just good ethics—it’s good business.

If you’ve ever hit rock bottom, questioned your path, or felt like you were playing the wrong game altogether—this episode is worth your time.

Greg doesn’t give you fluff. He gives you structure, stories, and straight-up strategies that can help you think clearer, work smarter, and live with more meaning. Want to hear how he rebuilt a life and business rooted in contribution, not just commissions?

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I was attacked by a bear, crashed my plane on a remote island in the Atlantic, slept in a tree over a crocodile-infested river, navigated a balloon over the Serengeti, and crashed my motorcycle in Africa.

I am married to the love of my life, Teresa Hague, and I am blessed with three sons and a nephew that together make up the center of my world.

I have devoted my professional career to founding and growing real estate firms pioneering new business models dedicated to improving the U.S. home selling process. I am founder and CEO of 72SOLD, widely recognized as the leading home selling program in America.

Real Estate Today magazine lauded me as a “Real Estate Visionary,” after founding an international referral service, the top-ranked luxury home brokerage in Arizona, and a 122-office, 4000-agent real estate franchise.

I served as a real estate business commentator for NPR and real estate expert to The Wall Street Journal and have appeared on over 200 television and radio shows, in addition to being featured in Kiplinger’s book, Buying and Selling a Home, Investors Business Daily, Money Magazine and Carolyn Janik’s book, Selling Your Home.

I have been nominated Entrepreneur of the Year, Educator of the Year, served as a Dale Carnegie instructor and authored the highly reviewed Amazon bestselling book, How Fathers Change Lives – Stories of Remarkable Dads.

A keynote speaker at over 450 real estate, corporate and entrepreneurial events, I have been included in conferences by American Express, Shaklee Products, RE/Max, Sotheby’s International, Coldwell Banker and Century 21.

In 2009, when the economy crashed, I decided to take a break from real estate and practice law. Even though I had graduated law school 35-years earlier, I was still able to achieve the #1 score on the Feb 2009 Arizona bar exam.

While practicing law, I was asked to teach a contracts class at Arizona Summit Law School and was voted “Law Professor of the Year” my first year. That year I was also honored as one of Arizona’s Top 50 Pro Bono Attorneys.

I have been widely recognized as one of the most creative real estate marketers in America and my real estate training company is the most recommended on LinkedIn. My proprietary 22-step home launch formula was featured in over 200 publications nationwide.

The home selling program I developed, facilitated by 72SOLD, is now the fastest growing real estate program in America, achieving 300%-500% annual growth since its founding in 2018. The program has been featured in Forbes, on ABC, CBS, and NBC television, and we were recently recognized in the Inc.5000 Top 5 Fastest Growing Real Estate Companies in America. We were also voted the #1 real estate brand in our home state of Arizona, and recognized in the top 50 Most Admired Companies out of over 100,000 businesses throughout Arizona.

A health advocate all my life, many consider me a nutrition nut. I stay very active as an instrument/twin engine-rated pilot, motorcycle adventurer, and high-energy, improve-the-way-it’s-done real estate entrepreneur.

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The Job Search is a Marketing Campaign: 6 Steps to Position Yourself to Win

Guest: Marty Gilbert
WHY.os: Better Way – Make Sense – Mastery

Marty Gilbert is the founder and CEO of North Shore Executive Networking Group (NSENG), the largest job search organization in the U.S. With over 12,000 members and one person landing a new job every day, Marty has helped more than 3,000 professionals find their next role. He brings a fresh, no-nonsense approach to job hunting, using his background in marketing and global business to teach people how to stand out and get hired.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why your job search is a marketing effort—and how to treat yourself like the product
  • How to reach decision-makers and break through hiring systems that keep most people out
  • The “What the Hell” approach: bold moves that get results in today’s job market

Listen now to hear real, practical advice you can use right away.

Connect with Marty!

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00:35 – Discovering the WHY of a Better Way

02:42 – Marty’s Early Years & Curiosity

06:41 – Solo Travel Across Europe

11:15 – Breaking into Advertising in Japan

17:00 – Cultural Immersion and Lessons from Asia

21:53 – Scaling Motorola’s Global Growth

25:43 – Building a Life and Career in Hong Kong

29:01 – Pivoting into Sports Data & Leadership

31:28 – Founding NSENG and the “What the Hell” Job Search Approach

39:51 – Marty’s Coaching Process for Job Seekers

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Job Searching is a Marketing Game: Marty Gilbert’s Bold Advice for Standing Out and Getting Hired

Let’s be real—job hunting can feel like throwing your résumé into the void while hoping someone, somewhere, hits reply. But what if it didn’t have to be that way? What if your job search worked more like a well-run marketing campaign—with clarity, purpose, and actual results? That’s exactly what Marty Gilbert, founder and CEO of North Shore Executive Networking Group (NSENG), teaches. And he knows a thing or two about success: his group has helped over 3,000 professionals land jobs, with one member getting hired every single day.

In his conversation with Dr. Gary Sanchez on the Beyond Your WHY podcast, Marty drops insight after insight, all rooted in his decades of global experience and his no-fluff, marketing-minded approach to career growth. Whether you’re unemployed, underwhelmed at your current job, or simply curious about how to get ahead in today’s crowded job market, this episode hits home.

You Are the Product—Now Start Marketing Like It

The biggest mindset shift Marty offers is this: stop thinking of your job search as a résumé game and start treating it like a full-blown marketing effort. “This isn’t HR,” he says. “This is marketing. You are now the product.” That means crafting a clear value proposition, writing a strong personal brand statement, and targeting your audience like you’re selling the next iPhone. He encourages job seekers to position, package, and promote their value with the same thoughtfulness and intensity you’d put into launching a new product. Think: high visibility, strong messaging, and no more generic applications.

The problem, Marty points out, is that most people (even marketers!) don’t like talking about themselves. So he helps his clients dig into their own stories, identify key achievements, and turn those into clear, confident narratives. “One of the first things I do is have people write down their seven most important accomplishments. We break them into challenge, action, and result.” It’s not about fluffing up your résumé—it’s about remembering your worth and making it loud enough to get noticed.

The Hidden Job Market Is Real—And It’s Where the Gold Is

If you’re only applying to jobs you see online, Marty has a gentle truth bomb for you: you’re missing out on the real opportunities. The hidden job market—aka jobs that aren’t posted publicly—is where he says most successful hires are happening. “Many companies never post their openings. They rely on internal referrals. So if you’re not actively connecting with decision-makers, you’re getting left behind.”

This is where his signature “What the Hell” approach comes in. Marty teaches people how to go around broken systems (like applicant tracking software that filters out great candidates) and get their materials in front of real humans. That might mean cold emailing a hiring manager, calling someone after being ghosted, or following up even after receiving a rejection. “Some of the best candidates get rejected by software,” he says. “But that doesn’t mean the game is over.”

Confidence is Built, Not Found (And Interviews Shouldn’t Suck)

Let’s talk interviews. According to Marty, most people walk into interviews nervous, overly polished, or disconnected from their own story. He flips that on its head with a more human, conversational approach. “An interview should feel like what you and I are doing right now,” he tells Gary. “It should be a conversation. That’s where confidence comes from.”

To help people get there, Marty does mock interviews over Zoom and plays them back. Yes, it’s awkward. But it’s also wildly effective. “I show them how many filler words they’re using—’like,’ ‘um,’ ‘you know’—and we work on pausing instead. A pause is powerful. It makes people lean in.” Marty’s practical, tactical style helps people not only get the interview, but nail it—and most importantly, feel good doing it.

Marty Gilbert isn’t your typical career coach. He doesn’t come from HR, doesn’t speak in buzzwords, and doesn’t pretend the job market isn’t tough. But that’s what makes his advice land. He treats the job search like what it actually is: a high-stakes, high-opportunity marketing challenge—and he gives people the tools to win. His “What the Hell” method, focus on value over fluff, and belief in direct connection have helped thousands of people take control of their career path.

If you’re in the thick of a job search, thinking about making a move, or just tired of being overlooked, this episode is worth your time. You’ll walk away with a new mindset, a few bold moves to try, and maybe—finally—a clear way forward.

🎧 Listen to the full episode of Beyond Your WHY with Marty Gilbert to get the full conversation and put these strategies to work today.