Hitting a plateau in your coaching practice feels like running headfirst into an invisible wall. It’s that moment when you realize your practice isn’t growing, every session starts to blend into the next, and the fiery excitement that once fueled your passion and got you jumping out of bed in the morning just doesn’t burn as brightly anymore. It’s a tough and disheartening spot to find yourself in, but it’s also a chance to pause, reflect, and pivot towards something new and exciting. The secret ingredient to breaking through this standstill? Delving deep to uncover what truly drives your clients – their WHY.
Spotting What’s Got You Stuck
The first step to overcoming this hurdle is to recognize the tell-tale signs that your coaching practice has hit a plateau. Maybe you’ve noticed that your list of new clients has dried up, or that the buzz and satisfaction you used to feel during and after coaching sessions have dwindled to a faint hum. Perhaps the strategies and approaches that once brought breakthroughs for your clients now seem to barely scratch the surface. These signs are like big, flashing neon arrows pointing to the need for a serious shake-up. They’re telling us loud and clear that it’s time to dig deeper into our foundational motivations for coaching and to explore fresh, innovative ways to connect with and empower our clients.
Why WHY Matters
At the core of every significant transformation, whether personal or professional, lies a potent motivator—a WHY. This WHY isn’t just a surface-level explanation of the tasks we perform; it’s a deep, resonant understanding of our most profound motivations and the driving forces behind our actions. This concept doesn’t just apply to us as coaches; it’s equally vital for understanding the deep-down aspirations, fears, and dreams of our clients. When we successfully tap into this, we unlock the potential to make our coaching sessions exponentially more meaningful, personalized, and impactful. This profound connection can reignite the spark in our coaching practice and guide our clients toward the real, lasting breakthroughs they seek.
Mixing WHY into Your Coaching
Revisit Your Roots: Every great journey begins with a single step, and the first step here is to take a thoughtful step back and reflect on why you started coaching in the first place. What was it that drew you to this profession? Was it the joy of seeing someone achieve their potential, or perhaps the satisfaction of helping others navigate their path to success? Reminding yourself of your own WHY can breathe new life into your approach, rekindling your passion and infusing each coaching session with a renewed sense of purpose and energy.
Go Deeper with Clients: It’s time to enhance the way we listen and interact with our clients, to move beyond the surface and delve into the essence of their goals and aspirations. This means refining our questioning techniques, dedicating entire sessions to active listening, or even integrating new tools and exercises designed specifically to unearth deeper motivations. The goal here is to foster an environment where clients feel safe, seen, and understood, creating the perfect conditions for them to open up about the real WHYs behind their ambitions.
Keep Learning: The landscape of coaching is dynamic and ever-evolving, with new theories, methodologies, and insights emerging all the time. Commit to staying informed about the latest trends, innovations, and tools that can help you integrate the concept of WHY into your coaching practice. This commitment to continuous learning and adaptation not only enriches your toolbox but ensures that your approach remains fresh, relevant, and impactful, capable of meeting the changing needs and challenges of your clients.
Putting WHY to Work
Make It Personal: With a clear and profound understanding of your clients’ WHYs at your fingertips, you’re now in a prime position to develop highly personalized, resonant growth plans. These tailored plans speak directly to the unique motivations, challenges, and dreams of each client, ensuring a coaching experience that is not only more effective but also deeply satisfying for both parties involved.
Boost Engagement: Leveraging the deep insights gained into your clients’ WHYs can transform the way you connect and engage with them. This deeper level of understanding fosters a stronger, more meaningful connection, making clients more invested in their coaching journey. It’s this investment and commitment that often leads to the most profound and impactful breakthroughs.
Track and Tweak: As you weave these WHY-focused strategies into the fabric of your coaching practice, it’s essential to keep a close eye on their effectiveness. Be open to feedback, both from your own observations and directly from your clients, and be prepared to adjust and adapt your methods as needed. This flexible, responsive approach is key to refining your coaching practice and ensuring that it consistently delivers the profound, meaningful transformations your clients are seeking.
Finding yourself in a state of stagnation isn’t a sign to pack up and call it quits; it’s a clarion call to dive deeper, to explore the rich, fertile ground of understanding and leveraging our clients’ WHYs. By adopting this strategy, we move beyond just getting by; we launch our coaching into new heights of success, happiness, and powerful change.
What’s Next?
If the idea of stagnation strikes a chord with you, or if you’re simply seeking a deeper, more meaningful connection with your clients, then here are you next steps. Take the time to reflect on your own WHY, explore the motivations that drive your clients, and share your experiences, insights, and successes.
We’re hosting a free presentation that’ll show you exactly how to to start. You’ll learn how to spot when you and your clients are just going through the motions, and how getting to the core of their goals can reignite your passion and theirs. This isn’t about overhauling everything you do; it’s about adding that missing piece that can make all the difference.
Our talk is packed with real advice that you can start using right away. Whether you’re feeling stuck yourself or you’re just keen on building stronger connections with your clients, this presentation has got you covered.
So, if you’re ready to shake things up and see real growth in your coaching practice, join us. Let’s make those moments of feeling stuck a thing of the past and move towards truly impactful coaching together.
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5 Bold Moves to Grow Faster: Lessons from Aaron Velky on the Beyond Your WHY Podcast
When it comes to business, coaching, and life in general, Aaron Velky knows what he’s talking about. As a successful entrepreneur and coach, Aaron has dedicated his career to helping others create movement—whether in sports, business, or personal growth. His approach is all about finding the right balance, overcoming fear, and refusing to play small. In this episode of the Beyond Your WHY podcast, hosted by Dr. Gary Sanchez, Aaron shares some key lessons on how to stop stalling and start making real progress.
If you’re someone who tends to hesitate or feels like you’re holding back, this episode is for you. Aaron doesn’t just talk about his wins—he dives deep into the importance of trying things, even when you’re unsure or afraid. As someone who’s built multiple businesses and coached countless individuals, he knows a thing or two about the challenges that come with growth. Let’s break down the major takeaways that can help you move forward, starting today.
Clarity Comes from Cutting Out the Noise
One of Aaron’s biggest points is that clarity isn’t about adding more ideas or options—it’s about removing the ones that aren’t aligned with your goals. We often get stuck because we feel like we’re drowning in possibilities, but according to Aaron, the real trick is knowing what not to do. “You get clear by cutting away the distractions,” Aaron says. He talks about how, in both business and life, the most successful people aren’t the ones who do it all—they’re the ones who focus on what really matters.
Take a look at your to-do list. Are there tasks on there that aren’t serving your bigger vision? If so, it’s time to cut them out and refocus. Aaron’s approach isn’t just about doing less—it’s about doing the right things, and that’s where the magic happens.
Do It Scared
Aaron shares a piece of advice that might make some of us uncomfortable, but it’s key: you’ve got to do it scared. Whether it’s taking a leap in your career, having a tough conversation, or starting a new venture, fear will always be part of the equation. But as Aaron explains, waiting until you’re fearless isn’t the answer. “If I’m scared, we do it scared. That has been my model for everything,” he says.
This mindset shift is huge for anyone who feels stuck or unsure. Instead of waiting for the perfect moment (spoiler: it doesn’t exist), Aaron encourages listeners to take action even when the fear is there. It’s in the doing that confidence builds, and before you know it, what once seemed terrifying will become just another step on your path.
Coaches Create Movement, Not Comfort
If there’s one thing Aaron is passionate about, it’s the role of a coach in helping people grow. But unlike what some may think, a coach isn’t there to make things easier—they’re there to push you. “A coach forces movement,” Aaron explains, “You can either run toward the vision, or I’ll set your chair on fire.” This quote sums up his no-nonsense approach to growth. Whether you’re working with a business coach, life coach, or fitness trainer, the goal is always movement, not comfort.
Aaron also touches on how everyone needs someone outside their inner circle who believes in them more than they believe in themselves. This outside perspective can help you see your potential and push past the limits you didn’t even realize you’d set. It’s not about feeling good all the time—it’s about making progress, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Stop Playing Small
A key theme throughout Aaron’s conversation with Gary is the importance of showing up fully in life. “Nobody benefits from you shrinking,” he says, quoting a mentor who changed his perspective on hiding his true potential. Whether you’re in a meeting, presenting to a client, or launching a business, Aaron believes that showing up confidently—without holding back—is essential.
Shrinking or playing small might feel safe, but it doesn’t help you grow. Aaron shares his own experiences of stepping into bigger roles and embracing opportunities, even when he didn’t feel ready. His advice? You’ll never feel completely ready, so stop waiting and start stepping into the bigger version of yourself today.
Action Leads to Impact—Don’t Wait for the “Right” Time
Another important takeaway from Aaron’s episode is the idea that making an impact doesn’t need to wait until you’ve “made it.” Many people hold off on pursuing bigger goals, like giving back or creating a legacy, because they think they need to hit a certain level of success first. But Aaron challenges this idea, saying, “Impact can’t wait.” He urges listeners to take action on their bigger goals now, even if it’s in small ways. The perfect time might never come, so don’t let waiting be an excuse for inaction.
Aaron Velky’s insights in this episode of Beyond Your WHY are both practical and inspiring. From pushing past fear to creating clarity by eliminating distractions, Aaron’s approach is all about action. If you’re feeling stuck, these lessons offer a straightforward way to get moving again.
About Aaron Velky
Aaron Velky is a transformational coach on a mission to help you reach the next level and create an incredible impact in the world by solving your biggest problem…
You.
He’s been through all the things that kept him from living the life he wanted: being his own worst enemy, believing his own excuses, and not having someone to hold him accountable to change.
Now, Aaron and the team at Get Out of Your Own Way coach successful entrepreneurs to a crystal-clear vision and push them to the next level of business, relationships, experiences, and health while elevating their ability to make an impact. Hang around Aaron for a while, and you’ll change from an immovable object to an unstoppable force.
His podcast was ranked in the top 2.5% of worldwide shows in the first 10 days of launch, and his retreats, coaching and company programs have helped hundreds grow beyond their wildest dreams.
Visit getoutofyourownway.coach for more info on retreats, coaching and company engagements.